Red Flags Men Need to Avoid
Women like dating. Whatever you, single guys are thinking, women like to date you. Women like to see your best qualities. We will notice the cool T-shirt you’re wearing and the gentlemanly way you’re treating the waitress. However, there are some oddities that women just can’t ignore and that men need to avoid. Here are some of the list.
First, a woman’s ‘no’ actually means ‘no’. You might think that women don’t always say what they really feel. So when you ask her if she wants dessert and she says ‘no’, it’s possible that she means yes, but reverse psychology doesn’t work in this situation. If she doesn’t want you to do it and you still do it, she would take it as you not respecting her decision. Independence is very important for a woman and if she feels that her decision-making is not respected, she will be so quick to stay away from you. Women look for this red flag because this could lead to more control-issues.
Second, bad-mouthing others is a big mistake. You might think that women like to gossip about other people and you might try to use this style to make conversations… big mistake. It’s okay to talk about your goofy experience with your buddies but to dish-dirt about your co-workers, family, friends or criticize someone close to you will not be impressive at all. This means your loyalty is not stable or you just don’t have it and it will keep the woman wondering if she’s the next victim.
Third red flag, holiday aversion. Women likes holidays. We like to celebrate, we like parties, we like gifts and all the happy stuff on a holiday or any special occasion. So if you don’t want us to think that you have a troubled childhood or just too cheap to celebrate, then don’t murmur about your hatred for holidays.
This will lead us to the fourth red flag – lack of ambition. Ambition deficiency is not just bad for men but for everyone. Women likes men who has a job because that shows him being responsible, but you will gain more respect from a woman if you love your job. We find it sexy if a man is proud of his job for it shows that he knows what he wants. But if you’re a slacker who doesn’t want to get promoted because you don’t want more responsibility, then you’re getting the red flag.
Fifth, avoid neglectful behavior. Any man of dating age should know the basic ideal qualities of a gentleman. You should be polite, respectful and most of all, you should show her that you love the time you spend with her. Meaning, avoid any possible distractions. Answering your cellphone while you’re having dinner together is not very pleasant. Introduction should be done when you bump into anyone you know. Conversations should be polite and mutual, meaning, don’t let her do all the talking and thinking, or better yet, don’t do all the talking yourself.
Different things happen in first dates or dating in general. But it pays to observe the basic rules so you won’t be so clueless of the game. Now that you’ve read some of the list, you’re ready to go to the field. So good luck.