Direct Approach May Not Be Effective
Some men think that going direct and clarifying your intention to a woman works well and fast. It works for some, but bad for many. First, let’s simplify things. Approaching women because you like her is different from approaching her just so you could get laid.
If we talk about the first one, direct approach may be okay. And you have to prove for the rest of the night that you like her for who she is and not just for her body or money, with a long-term relationship in mind. This situation usually ends the night with a goodnight kiss and not getting naked.
The second part is more complicated. It’s like playing a game and all games are based on agreements. So first, both of you must agree that you are players of the same game and that both of you want to play this game. Some men choose to go direct on this part for faster result and less effort. It works okay but could create more damages. It could blow your chance of getting the goal and could ruin your social reputation. Better to just stay polite, go slowly in a subtle way.
Next step is to make sure that you agree to play the game together. This is very important. You must know that your mind set is in the same level. You will need to be smart and observant for this part. Third thing to put in your head is you must show her that you value her game goal. Women like it when they feel that you are thoughtful of her and that your mind is not busy thinking only of your own desire. You need to assure her that she won’t regret the decision. You need to show her that you’re a gentleman to gain her trust. Because women want to make sure she’s in good hands before she makes a decision. You need to be thoughtful of her. Assure her that you can carry her through all the obstacles and that you’ll take care of everything and she doesn’t need to worry about anything.
Now, alot of things are probably going through on your mind right now. Maybe you’re a little confused. The main idea is for you to be thoughtful and not selfish, although the idea of the game is due to selfish fleshly desires, yet still, you need to show the woman the respect she wants to get what you want, you know what I mean? Like what some song points out, a woman likes it when a man makes her feel like a woman.