First, a woman’s ‘no’ actually means ‘no’. You might think that women don’t always say what they really feel. So when you ask her if she wants dessert and she says ‘no’, it’s possible that she means yes, but reverse psychology doesn’t work in this situation. If she doesn’t want you to do it and you still do it, she would take it as you not respecting her decision. Independence is very important for a woman and if she feels that her decision-making is not respected, she will be so quick to stay away from you. Women look for this red flag because this could lead to more control-issues.

Second, bad-mouthing others is a big mistake. You might think that women like to gossip about other people and you might try to use this style to make conversations… big mistake. It’s okay to talk about your goofy experience with your buddies but to dish-dirt about your co-workers, family, friends or criticize someone close to you will not be impressive at all. This means your loyalty is not stable or you just don’t have it and it will keep the woman wondering if she’s the next victim.

Third red flag, holiday aversion. Women likes holidays. We like to celebrate, we like parties, we like gifts and all the happy stuff on a holiday or any special occasion. So if you don’t want us to think that you have a troubled childhood or just too cheap to celebrate, then don’t murmur about your hatred for holidays.

This will lead us to the fourth red flag – lack of ambition. Ambition deficiency is not just bad for men but for everyone. Women likes men who has a job because that shows him being responsible, but you will gain more respect from a woman if you love your job. We find it sexy if a man is proud of his job for it shows that he knows what he wants. But if you’re a slacker who doesn’t want to get promoted because you don’t want more responsibility, then you’re getting the red flag.

Fifth, avoid neglectful behavior. Any man of dating age should know the basic ideal qualities of a gentleman. You should be polite, respectful and most of all, you should show her that you love the time you spend with her. Meaning, avoid any possible distractions. Answering your cellphone while you’re having dinner together is not very pleasant. Introduction should be done when you bump into anyone you know. Conversations should be polite and mutual, meaning, don’t let her do all the talking and thinking, or better yet, don’t do all the talking yourself.

Different things happen in first dates or dating in general. But it pays to observe the basic rules so you won’t be so clueless of the game. Now that you’ve read some of the list, you’re ready to go to the field. So good luck.

Now lets talk about the basic ways to attract women. Generally, women are more perceptive than men. They are searching out for personality, good virtues more than good looks.  Some women even like rough men, because it alludes to strength and it shows that you don’t care about your looks rather you care much more on important things.

Body Language is quite important, although others ignore it but honestly, it is essential. Faking is not good. Be yourself and show her who you really are because sooner or later they will know what’s the ‘real’ you so why not let them fall in love with the right person. As mentioned, honesty is very much essential. Always be honest about your past and the things that you have done.

Women are attracted to men that makes her feel really special. When talking to her, always look at her in the eyes. Don’t ignore her. Get to know her well and tell her what you feel. But before doing that, you need to know her more, try to see if she feels the same. Otherwise, it will be a bit risky for telling her straight up.

Usually men mistakenly tries to attract women by trying to act arrogant and cooler than his friends. But actually acting like that does not impress girls. Women like to be taken care of, but of course, don’t be overprotective of her.

Women loves compliment. So never forget to compliment her on how she looks. But you should give an honest statement. Some women, the romantic type ones like the action type of a guy. It actually depends, so don’t be too hasty. Just take your time. Get to know her first before making a move.