I get a lot of emails from guys who ask me what they should do, because they’ve met an UNUSUALLY attractive woman. It seems that most men intuitively guess that they need to do something SPECIAL with a REALLY hot woman… something different than they’d usually do. And partially, that’s true

One of the things that you will want to remember when you’re dealing with the UNUSUALLY attractive women… is … that they are used to being treated special because of their physical beauty, and not appreciated for their minds or talents.

Beauty creates distance.

The more beautiful a woman is (or makes herself with makeup, clothing, hairstyles, and other “enhancements”) the more difficult it becomes for other humans to interact with her and communicate with her in a “normal” way.

When you start talking to a woman who has obviously spent many hours preparing herself, putting on makeup, choosing just the right outfit, doing her hair, and MOST IMPORTANTLY practicing that certain “attitude” that creates the air of untouchable beauty, YOU CAN FEEL IT.

Something is very different.

She knows it and you know it.

And she WANTS you to know it…

IT GIVES WOMEN POWER BECAUSE IT CAUSES MEN TO “GIVE AWAY ” THEIR POWER.

…so let’s talk about what these things mean…and what to do about them…

How do you communicate to a model, actress or dancer that you’re comfortable with them, and not intimidated by their job or beauty? There is a type of guy that STANDS OUT… the kind of guy that comes along maybe every few months… or maybe only once a year.

Right! Make fun of them!

If a woman says“ I’m a model”, say “Oh, like a parts model or something? What, do you have sexy toes? ” If she says “I’m an actress, ” say “Nice, so what you’re telling me is that you’re a waitress, but you do some extra work on the side? ” If she’s a topless dancer, say “How did you get this job? What, did you have to pay someone off?”

Joking around, busting on them, and teasing INSTANTLY communicates that you’re NOT going to give them any special treatment for their “beauty job”, and that, if anything, you see their job as an “average” thing to be doing.

Works like magic..

So what does a woman who has it all WANT?

SHE WANTS TO BE “CHALLENGED. ”

Here’s a GREAT mindset to take with a woman who seems to be a little too used to “the good life” …

Just say “You know what? You’re a spoiled BRAT. ” That should get her attention.

Then follow up with “It’s too bad you’re not more of a normal, nice girl… ” The protests should be starting by this point…

“But I AM a nice girl…”

“Suuuure you are. Me too. “

Are you with me? The message is “Just because you’re spoiled and snotty, don’t think you’re going to get special treatment from me. In fact, it’s a problem. ”

This creates a HUGE challenge (which attractive women love), and sets you apart from all the other “boring” guys she’s been out with lately. Will some women stick their noses up in the air and laugh at you? Sure, it will happen once in awhile. Good. It’s better sooner than later… and I mean that.

Oh, one more IMPORTANT thing.

I’d like you to think for a moment about what it’s like when you see a REALLY beautiful woman walk by. I’m talking about the kind of woman that you only see every few MONTHS or so… maybe once a year. Think about how you stop, look again, keep looking …And how it makes you feel inside

Guess what?

Does this sound a little crazy?

To that unusually beautiful woman, most men seem the same. To her, men all blur together into a big mass of compliments, offers for dates, and attention. But there is a type of guy that REALLY makes her stop, do a double take, and pay attention. There is a type of guy that STANDS OUT… the kind of guy that comes along maybe every few months… or maybe only once a year.

The question I have for you is …

WILL YOU BE THAT GUY?

Or are you going to just be another one of the dozens and hundreds and thousands of guys that just stand and stare… or give away their power in hopes that this goddess will see fit to bless you with even a pinch of her attention? If you want to know all the steps, top to bottom and front to back for how to be this kind of guy, then I have a hint for you …

Go get my eBook “Double Your Dating”, which can you can download and be reading in just a few minutes…

It’s time for you to stop sitting on the sidelines admiring all the beautiful women you see, and start DATING them. I’ll show you how.

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Listen up guys.. because if this doesn’t apply to you now, it very well may in the future.

So you have a girlfriend or a wife. You’ve been together for a while and the sex dries up. What are you going to do? Trust me, almost EVERY guy has dealt with this issue… and, quite frankly, it sucks. Wouldn’t you agree?

When you guys first met, she was all over you. She might have wanted it all the time. She may have even been seducing you, talking dirty to you. She may have done all the things you wanted.. and more.

But, things change, and people get “comfortable”. So, what’s a guy to do?

Well I see a few options – some of which are better than others:

#1) Cheat on her. Bad move. Never works out. Better off breaking up with her first. If its your wife, and you have kids, it may seem like a good option. I mean you don’t want to sacrifice your marriage, life, kids, etc. So, you figure maybe a little something-something on a vacation with the guys won’t hurt anything. Well, in the short-term, maybe not. But, it still doesn’t solve the problem. You’d rather have her ALL OVER YOU, just like she used to be. So, don’t cheat.

#2) Figure out what a new guy would do to STEAL your girl and how he’d make her HOT. Listen, I’m going to be honest with you.. I’ve had girls tell me SO MANY nasty things they would do. This includes bringing other girls into the bedroom, doing this, doing that, etc. TRUST ME.. MOST women will do these things, under the right circumstances.. and FOR THE RIGHT GUY. Well… who would that guy be? Would it be a guy who understands them. Would it be a guy who tells them to SHUT UP? (that might surprise you) .. Would it be a guy who does nice things? Would it be a guy who likes to travel and do new things? IF that’s NOT you.. then GET A BETTER JOB, MAKE MORE MONEY, WORKOUT, ETC. and BECOME THAT GUY. Stop pissing and moaning and improve yourself, and your girlfriend or wife may likely want to seduce all over again. This leads me to my last point..

#3) Become more powerful and become a NICER GUY. This is a KILLER combination. A lot of “powerful” guys are complete assholes. And a lot of “nice guys” get stepped all over. So, you want to be a balance of both. You can ALWAYS get better at one or the other. So, figure out how to do it, and … DO IT. Your girlfriend or wife will notice. Either figure out how to become LESS of a cold-hearted, go-getter and become more passionate and caring. OR make more money, become more driven, become more successful and attractive to others.

These are only a few ways to get things back on track. Surprisingly, they don’t have to do with anything “physical”. If you want more sex again, its likely a “mental” thing. Why do I say this? Well, plenty of fat slobs get super-hot chicks. Now, that’s not to say improving your appearance, if you’ve let yourself get shabby, will NOT help your cause, however. But, its likely a combination of things.

And if you’re just worried about changing HER, then you’re definitely barking up the wrong tree. Sure, women can become very annoying. And SO CAN WE. Guys can be downright idiotic. I should know, I am one. But, listen, girls will HOP-TO when they have a guy on their hands they ADMIRE and DESIRE. So if you want her to SLAVE over you SEXUALLY.. then BE THAT GUY.

Don’t be so concerned with HER. Be concerned with YOURSELF.

What’s the added benefit of that? Well, if she doesn’t get HER act together, you’ll be naturally more attractive to EVERY OTHER WOMAN you come across.