Approaching Women

Smile. That is always effective, so that is our first tip. Smile is always useful in getting what you want or in making things happen. And when approaching women, a smile is very important. You smile because you’re happy to see her. You smile because you’re a cool happy guy. Just fill your mind with all positive things you can think of and it will work for you. Think that she’s happy to see you, think that you’re making her day, think that she is happy coz she will have something to brag to her girlfriends. Take note though, make it a happy smile, not a goofball kind of smile.

Now that you’re starting a conversation, focus on the present. Don’t stress your mind by thinking about the next cool thing to do. Just relax, be yourself. Listen to her and focus on the conversation. Enjoy the moment and stay in the moment. Whatever comes out of the interaction does not matter. What matters is what’s happening right now. Just enjoy the interaction, feel it and just have fun.

Most importantly, be a man not a boy. If you don’t know what that means yet, then your not a man yet. Well, it simply means you’re in charge. Make the first move.

Sharing too much too soon

Some guys think that a woman might like hearing you what you feel for her.  Some women might like that. But in many cases, when a man tells a woman too early how much he feels for her, the result may not be very positive.The woman might think that you’re not a challenge anymore, that you’re so predictable and so easy and that you will do whatever she wants you to do or give her whatever she wants. And it won’t be long before she’ll be tired of you.

This may not be true  in many cases. Some women do hope you would say you’re sincere intentions and would like to hear what you’re feeling or how much you feel for her. But for guys to play it safe, better know the techniques in making her wanting you more. Be a little bit mysterious. Don’t talk too much, don’t share too much and too soon. Wait for your relationship to go deeper. Know her more. And when the time is right, let her hear what she’s been waiting to hear from you for a long time.